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Carers & Families Board
A space just for family carers and loved ones. Share what's working, ask for advice, or simply be heard.
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Has anyone found a good routine for sundowning? My mum gets very agitated around 4–5pm every day. We've tried going for a short walk but some days she refuses. Any tips from those who've been through this would mean the world. 🙏
Hello Margaret, thank you for reaching out — sundowning is one of the most common experiences families describe, and the late-afternoon timing you mention is very typical. A few evidence-based strategies families find genuinely helpful: 1) A consistent, calming late-afternoon routine — a familiar activity at the same time each day (music, a cup of tea in the garden, a quiet sit together) can reduce the anticipation and agitation. 2) Bright natural light in the morning and a calmer environment in the late afternoon — lowering noise, clutter and shadows in the 3–6pm window helps many people. 3) Check the basics first — pain, hunger, thirst, a full bladder, or medication timing can all intensify late-day restlessness; a GP or pharmacist medication review is often worthwhile. 4) If the pattern becomes very distressing, Dementia Support Australia (1800 100 500, 24/7) provides free specialist advice for families, and your mum's GP can rule out underlying causes. Please be kind to yourself too — Carer Gateway (1800 422 737) offers free counselling and respite so you can rest. — Cassandra's Compass Team. References: Dementia Australia. (n.d.). Sundowning. https://www.dementia.org.au · Khachiyants, N., Trinkle, D., Son, S. J., & Sanders, A. E. (2011). Sundown syndrome in persons with dementia: An update. Clinical Gerontologist, 34(4), 276–292. https://doi.org/10.1080/07317115.2011.588211
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Community Connect
Organise intergenerational events — connecting schools, aged care, and community groups across Australia
What is Community Connect?
Community Connect is a space where schools, aged care services, community groups, and families can come together to organise meaningful intergenerational events. Intergenerational connection is widely reported to improve wellbeing, reduce loneliness in older adults, and build empathy and social awareness in young people.
Post your event idea here, and we will help connect you with a local service. Whether you are a primary school wanting to share a performance, or an aged care facility looking to welcome visitors — this is your space.
Ideas to Get You Started
Drama Dress Rehearsal
A primary school invites a nearby residential aged care facility for their dress rehearsal. Residents enjoy the performance, and students gain an unforgettable audience. The facility arranges transport for those who are able to attend.
School Choir Visit
A local primary school choir visits a memory care unit on a Friday afternoon. Music sparks joy and memory — residents who rarely speak often sing along. The choir learns about respect, empathy, and community.
Market Stall Day
A school market stall day opens its doors to aged care residents from a nearby facility. Residents shop for handmade crafts, enjoy student performers, and feel part of their broader community again.
Reading Buddies
Older students visit aged care residents weekly to read aloud or listen to residents share their stories. The program builds literacy skills and provides genuine social connection across generations.
Art Exhibition Swap
Student artworks are displayed in an aged care facility for a month. Residents create their own artworks in response — the facility's art is then displayed at the school. A community gallery, free for all.
You are not alone. Cassandra's Compass is here for families, carers, care staff, and students navigating dementia and aged care in Australia. © Cassandra's Compass 2026.
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Verified against official sources on 2 October 2026